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QOTD
A Boredom So Monumental It Humbles
… things changing, falling apart, fading, another year, a few more moves, a hard person who doesn’t give a fuck, a boredom so monumental it humbles, arrangements so fleeting made by people you don’t even know that it requires you to lose an sense of reality you might have once acquired, expectations so unreasonable you become superstitious about ever matching them.
– The Informers (Bret Easton Ellis)
The Best Way to Live
My eyes skim pages of advertisments that show me the best way to live.
– The Informers (Bret Easton Ellis)
Realistic Expectations
Mr. Aries is not the easiest man to live with, but he might be one of the most exciting. If you really want him, you must have the self-assurance that you deserve him. At the same time, you must be strong enough to love him without being enslaved by his demands. The only successful relationship with an Aries man is an equal one. If you are ready for the challenge of taming someone who has to be convinced of equality, than you’re on the right track to a great love.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
How to Keep Him
Passion and patience are prerequisite to keeping the fires burning. Sexually, the Aries man is enthusiastic and direct. Sometimes too direct. If you don’t tell him what you want, he’ll forget to ask. He’s got all the instincts of the Ram, but his technique often needs refining. Therefore, he’ll supply the energy, but you must supply the imagination. Be Warm, affectionate, soothing, and supportive. At the same time, if he in any way tries to bully you, cooly hold your ground.
Mr. Aries would rather have a woman he can respect, not walk on. On the other hand, that doesn’t mean that he won’t occasionally try. Firmly make him aware of your feelings and expectations, and should he forget, assertively remind him. Overpower him with physical affection while you make him aware of your special powers. However, at all times let him know that they don’t compete with his, and never let him forget it.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
How to Get His Attention
Mr. Aries responds to high energy, flash, dazzle, and more than a touch of the obvious. He is a sucker ofr a low-cut blouse, a short skirt, a sexy smile, and conversation centered around him. Therefore, appeal to his baser instincts and approach him. Compliment him on his clothes and say something else with your eyes. Be dynamic, enthusiastic, and very direct. Maneuver the focus to his work and make him feel important. Then suggest continuing the conversation over dinner.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
His Bad Points
He can be selfish, egotistical, insensitive, and emotionally capricious. The less-evolved Aries man lives merely ofr his immediate satisfactions and will tread on the feelings of anyone who might interfere. He sees to it that each person around him has a function that ultimately feeds his feelings of power. And because he is so impatient and temperamental, he’ll fail to fin dthe time to show either gratitude or appreciation.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
His Good Points
He is exciting, energetic, strong, courageous, and powerful. He lives his life intensely and without fear. Mr. Aries is a man who can make the majority of men seem like weaklings. He has a self-confidence that is truly magical. His passion for life and love is to be envied, as is his ability to be clear about the desires that he satisfies in record time.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
His Attitude Toward Women
He is passion personified and can be so ardent with his affections that he can make a woman feel that she’s never been loved before. While he may not follow through with flowers, his feelings are romantic and his emotions intense. When he’s in love he can be loyal, loving, jealous, and generally consumed with feeling.
Mr. Aries is also capable of strings of one-night stands and sex that is more biologic than rhapsodic. Ideally he would love to be in love. However, should that be missing, or even waning, he is not at all shy about seeking his satisfactions elsewhere. Since his sexual energy is so strong that it could probably shatter glass, Mr. Aries needs his outlets. Strenuous athletics and a consuming devotion to his career often help. Outside of that, casual sex is something that he is certainly not opposed to.
Essentially he is a highly sexed being who has a spontaneous approach – i.e., whoever happens to be turning his wheels at the moment may very soon be in his bed. However, whether she ever sees him after sunrise depends on how intensly she keyed into his emotions. When not emotionally involved, Mr. Aries can be so cut and dried that he is capable of turning on the news in a moment of afterglow. On the other hand, when he is truly impassioned, he would neither notice nor care if you stopped dieting and gained weight, as long as you gave him a lot of affection.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
What He Fears
This is a most courageous man who not only fears little, but who often finds fearful things exciting. His daring often attracts danger just as his neeeed to push life to the limits can create a lot of havoc. However, if he were to fear anything, it would be the type of rejection that would sabotage his ego and severly compromise his self-esteem. Even when he’s wrong, Mr. Aries needs to feel that it’s so unimportant that if anyone has noticed, he or she really shouldn’t have.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man
What He Needs
His ego is the center of his universe, and he needs it nurtured daily with large doses of admiration. Aside from that, Mr. Aries needs a lot of love, attention, and approval. Sexually, he is insatiable, and he therefore requires someone who can keep up with his habitual forays. Finally, he needs a woman who will not only stand up to him during his more intimidating moments, but who will cool him out during his daily combustions and self-created crises.
– How to Seduce the Aries Man